tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post5148947328139462903..comments2023-10-31T07:31:25.155-04:00Comments on Cats, Cuddling, & Carrot Cake: DefeatedAmandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06138962557957077434noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-79034352184243344622014-03-25T20:50:38.054-04:002014-03-25T20:50:38.054-04:00We all get there sometimes. You'll figure it o...We all get there sometimes. You'll figure it out soon enough and you'll be feeling like a friggin boss.Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15057480083148522580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-8379931979140367152014-03-25T19:58:55.622-04:002014-03-25T19:58:55.622-04:00I'm so sorry to hear this. I couldn't agre...I'm so sorry to hear this. I couldn't agree more with Alex! Student loans are a lot harder to pay back when you were unemployed. (I am DREADING my impending broke-ness that will come with graduation!) <br /><br />Your blog is a great outlet to vent frustration and hopefully receive positive advice. I wish I had more! I promise to read your posts even when they are short or "defeated!" McKenzie Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05351200456483290320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-23907481749269815022014-03-25T18:08:11.984-04:002014-03-25T18:08:11.984-04:00I'm so sorry you're feeling this way! It i...I'm so sorry you're feeling this way! It is so easy to get stuck in a rut sometimes and it really sucks! I hope things look up soon, even if it means you have to make some changes. P.S. Student loans SUCK BUTTPleas(e) and Carrotshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11116783027917869944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-4234289996362207102014-03-25T16:50:52.672-04:002014-03-25T16:50:52.672-04:00Sending positive vibes your way girlfriend. It'...Sending positive vibes your way girlfriend. It's so tough to be right out of college with loans and a low paying job. But keep your head up, and your eyes peeled for other jobs. They always say "the best time to look for a new job is while you are still working at your old job."<br />-Alex<br />http://www.monstermisa.blogspot.com/Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00510539412421425264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-11297208129864653172014-03-25T15:49:36.541-04:002014-03-25T15:49:36.541-04:00Hang in there! I promise it gets better. I have be...Hang in there! I promise it gets better. I have been HATING my job but it did eventually lead to something that I'm actually going to like doing. And I live with Christian and hardly ever seen him.. I feel like at this age we just kind of get the short end of the stick when it comes to money/schedules/workload because we're all so thankful to have jobs because of those horrible student loans. But I always just remind myself that this is only the beginning and we have SO much more ahead of us and it will all pay off. It doesn't always help that feeling of defeat but it does most of the time! Keep your head up, we can do it! :) Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06366077704414242171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-17487540307503080012014-03-25T15:41:41.905-04:002014-03-25T15:41:41.905-04:00Hang in there! It happens to all of us. I just try...Hang in there! It happens to all of us. I just try to make more time for the things that I really enjoy. Keep trying to seek out the positives!Alejandra https://www.blogger.com/profile/04331373979854204422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-32121673915270464462014-03-25T14:30:14.570-04:002014-03-25T14:30:14.570-04:00This gets to me a lot, you're not alone!This gets to me a lot, you're not alone!Amanda - Voyage of the MeeMeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08820601784610439713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-20836200427417077892014-03-25T12:07:38.369-04:002014-03-25T12:07:38.369-04:00So I saw Jillian Michaels last week (lol), and she...So I saw Jillian Michaels last week (lol), and she said something that really stuck with me. Stop living life by what you THINK you should be doing and do more of what you'd like to be doing. Does that make sense?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-73313062298160651212014-03-25T11:42:58.824-04:002014-03-25T11:42:58.824-04:00I use to feel that way a lot, I gave up my "o...I use to feel that way a lot, I gave up my "old dreams" for new one's and I'm much happier. I think as we get older our dreams for ourselves change and that's okay, we shouldn't feel guilty or even sad about it at all. We don't let children drink at 18 yet we expect them to know what career is going to make them happy forever. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1289010895663503768.post-25439889463203559722014-03-25T11:00:40.644-04:002014-03-25T11:00:40.644-04:00Sorry you are going through so much. I feel your ...Sorry you are going through so much. I feel your pain. My grief therapist said to me that it was ok to have our feelings, just feel them, own them. Then try to figure out what they mean. She suggested journaling about my feelings and that has really helped me. When I am sad I try to do stuff that makes me happy. It may be a tiny thing like a making a special cup of tea for myself or taking a walk outside. Even reading other blogs or looking at Instagram. I stumbled on to your blog a few weeks ago and thought it was so smart, darling, funny & cute. Your posts charmed me ♥ I hope you feel better ~ xo@gardengal4466https://www.blogger.com/profile/11130463969029577754noreply@blogger.com